290K views · 552 reactions | So your kid engages in a bad behavior... we either activate curiosity or we can activate punishment. Where do each of those lead us? Well, punishment gets us nowhere. It leads to shame, explosiveness and more bad behavior because our kids never learn the skills they were missing in the first place (aka WHY they engaged in bad behavior) Activating curiosity… that is where the magic happens. Check out this reel for more! | Dr. Becky at Good Inside | Facebook

You’re kid is being rude, not listening, talking back, being uncooperative… Here’s the truth: Kids are born with all the feelings and none of the skills to manage those feelings. When we interpret our kids’ rudeness from a lens of disrespect it’s easy to justify our frustration and our harsh reactions. I want us all to reframe how we talk about “disrespect”. Our kids are experiencing a wide range of feelings and taking them out with a wide range of behaviors. As parents, we can teach our kids th

631K views · 6.9K reactions | Instead of telling your kid what *not*...